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I agree with you for sure with some women losing their sexiness when they got a man but I also wanna say as a proclaimed baddie and mother/wifey myself, its easier to just put on an outfit without much thought some days. doesnt mean ive stopped being sexy, its just no longer on my mind to do it full-time. My man also lets me wear whatever i want, if I wanted to go out with my titties out he’d say “do you girl”, but thats the thing as a mom now I dont want to, or again more like time and place. its easy to blame the man and it some cases it is but honestly i feel like it has to do more with motherhood than anything else.

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long story short yes women have free will and make their own choices. However those choices are influenced by several things (including (& a fair amount of the time) a man and the relationship they're in). Im sure ASAP does not tell, or make demands when it comes to her clothing choices. In spite of all that I stillllllll blame the man cause

1. there is some truth too it and

2. Its fun LMAO 🤭

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oh no its def more fun to blame the motherfucker for sho! 😂

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10000% agree with you. All women need to be careful when dating period. Now I did mention how she covered more when she dated Hassan but her looks were still great. I also think she still trying to lose her mommy weight. Every time a woman fall in love a little piece of her flies away and i was hoping that dating rocky he would inspire her to be more of herself. I honestly think its the having kids part that shes worried about. I want free the nipple rihanna back !

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No I definitely agree i think it was more so the kids (but the kids are because of ASAP Rocky so 💀) but yess I miss the inhibition-less half naked rihanna

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the kids are also cuz she wanted them not just cuz of ASAP 😂 and kids are the ultimate sexy blocker

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I knew she wanted kids I was just stating the ASAP gave her the kids she couldn't have them by herself LMAO. I feel like mothers can be sexy, but usually women become mothers and certain things become taboo to them. Which isn't a bad thing nor a good thing just a thing

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yeah thats honestly one of the reasons why i dislike motherhood.

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