Having a Man Really Does Suck The Sexy from a Woman
I mean look at what happened to Rihanna.....
I honestly feel like one of the sexiest things a woman can do is be single!
A woman who is free, and has no one to please but herself (and kids I guess, if any). A woman who is not concerned with the wants, needs, and EGO of a particular man, much less any man. Once a woman decides to enter into a relationship with a man, a inevitable change is soon to come. Now I don’t have thoughts on whether it is a bad change or a good change, but I do almost always observe a change and it is almost always a disappointing and underwhelming change to say the least.
Some women may have their own personal firsthand experience with this phenomenon (don’t lie yall love to immerse yallself in a man no shade 🤭). I have not experienced it (maybe that’s why I can’t keep a man a man can’t keep me 🤣), but for people like me we’ve seen it happen with women we’ve come to know throughout our life, or even observed in with public (famous) relationships. Now i’m talking about this because I have one specific celebrity that I have in mind 😭.
Rihanna 🤭
ASAP Rocky has taken Rihanna’s sexy!!!
Yea, I said it!
Listen, I really enjoy Rihanna’s music and style, and she inspired me all throughout my adolescence! She is a (fashion) icon, no doubt about it! Her face is definitely carved in my Bad Bitches Mt Rushmore! Although, it’s clear that she has moved on from the part of her life that made us fall in love with her, I still can’t help to acknowledge the change. Her (streetwear) outfits since she’s been with Rocky have been very hit or miss and the misses are outweighing the hits 😭. But honestly even before Rocky, Rih had a thing for taking on her lover/love interest’s sense of style.
I didn’t even bother to include Drake, cause well…….. he does not have any style.
I loved that full fledged….. for a lack of words (because it truly cannot be explained) “Rihanna Element” that we used to see in all her outfits. We don’t see much of it (in my opinion) since she got with that man 😭, it does peek through though. A lot of her (street style) outfits have been looking just look thrown together, like, I love maximalist looks too, but there still should be an order to the madness. She has had some great looks recently though, I must admit it’s not all bad. What do yall think? Rihanna isn’t the only one who did it, she just the only person that I actually cared 😂. Her streetstyle was just too good, though i’m not sure if it was all her, or her stylist.
Now, please don’t take this all to heart. I understand Rihanna has matured and it’s only natural for her sense of style to mature as well. She is a mother now! (I still pin ASAP Rocky as the culprit though.) She is still sexy, but obviously it’s a different sexy that she is now flaunting.
I agree with you for sure with some women losing their sexiness when they got a man but I also wanna say as a proclaimed baddie and mother/wifey myself, its easier to just put on an outfit without much thought some days. doesnt mean ive stopped being sexy, its just no longer on my mind to do it full-time. My man also lets me wear whatever i want, if I wanted to go out with my titties out he’d say “do you girl”, but thats the thing as a mom now I dont want to, or again more like time and place. its easy to blame the man and it some cases it is but honestly i feel like it has to do more with motherhood than anything else.
10000% agree with you. All women need to be careful when dating period. Now I did mention how she covered more when she dated Hassan but her looks were still great. I also think she still trying to lose her mommy weight. Every time a woman fall in love a little piece of her flies away and i was hoping that dating rocky he would inspire her to be more of herself. I honestly think its the having kids part that shes worried about. I want free the nipple rihanna back !